A poem

I found this poem today and it really hits home with me. With so many adults fighting in our world, some for the right reasons and some not so right. This reminds me what we show our children everyday is really what they see and learn. Not the big stuff like the big Thanksgiving day meal but the fact we each dinner together everyday. Not that we have a special day on ones birthday but that we make everyday special. Not that we only cuddle together when you are scared but we cuddle together when we are happy too. That when people are mean to us that most often it is something they are doing to themselves and nothing we are doing to them. It reminds me that every action every word is heard and more importantly felt by my children.      

 

 

Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.


If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Copyright © 1972 by Dorothy Law Nolte

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